Reading about a fight in another place reminded me of the three big ones L and I've had.
The second resulted from not spotting L when I arrived at a swimming pool, and started my swim, not realising that she was waiting outside.
The third was over the fromage frais. L wanted it, I ate it. It was apricot flavour, quite nice but certainly not worth losing a relationship over.
All rather silly really. But ghod did they hurt.
Isn't it odd that people who have safewords when playing various sex games don't use them in Real Life? Especially when they're being hurt, saying they're being hurt and the other person isn't listening for whatever reason.