Lying (by not telling them about)..
.. to your mother about being a prostitute?
.. to your partner about seeing a prostitute?
.. they're just as bad as each other
.. they're both ok
.. snowflake - answer in comments
This entry was originally posted at http://lovingboth.dreamwidth.org/419728.html, and needed to be redone here to have the poll here too. Memo to self: editing the post doesn't work - you need to do a new one.